When a relationship breaks down, the effects are deeply personal. Whether it is a work colleague or a family break up, it is both an emotional and legal problem. For those caught up in this circumstance, the need for understanding and compassion is made all the more important when faced with the weight of “blackletter” law. When someone has been treated badly or disrespectfully, discussing the situation with the help of a professional can make a difference. Discussing the emotional aspects such as loss, anger, pain and disappointment can help both parties find a way forward.